Dont have sex with your ex

So here's where i stand when it comes to talking to ex's.


DONT DO IT.

It never leads to anywhere good, if you guys were supposed to have a happy ending you would be with each other.

I've had some horrible encounters trying to hang out with ex's because sometimes they don't want to admit their seeing someone and you may wind up cheating on your new partner because you may have a chance to revive an old flame.

JUST DONT TO IT.

If talking to your ex's leads to anything, it leads to pain.

When they drop the bomb on you (their seeing someone else) It's gonna suck.

Now if it's been like a day since the breakup then go for it, but if it's been a week and he or she hasn't tried to get back with you then he or she is seeing someone else.

I have cut off all communication with ex girlfriends just because having them in my life now does me no good. I mean thats why we broke up in the first place right? Because they couldn't compliment my lifestyle.

so remember "Your ex is your ex for a reason avoid all contact, vocal or physical don't even look at them." If you don't follow this your gonna find yourself in a world of hurt buddy.

Cant trust a big but and a smile

So when you open up a magazine or hop on a train or even go to a club. You see big butts everywhere. big butts huge tits been there done that.

If you notice they come a dime a dozen.

So the goal is to not just find a girl with a big but (they're everywhere!) find a girl who can compliment your life. Me personally i need a girl with a brain someone i can talk to (i guess a lot of people do). But definitely someone i can vibe with. The big booty girls will always be there, they're not going anywhere and if a girl has a big but and thats all she has then thats all you can enjoy about her. (Granted there are a few smart good looking girls.)

Dont get me wrong i love a girl with a nice body, but they're everywhere. Now a girl with some wit that can be hard to find.

"Now voyager sail forth to seek and find"

The pursuit of happiness and the end of days

One should never go to bed unhappy. Days happen once ever and they never come back. You cant redo them.
For every year and every month the days never repeat. There will never be another december 16th 2009 EVER.

So spend that one day that will never happen again with the best intentions. Your senior prom happens once and you spend thousands on that,a wedding happens once and people spend hundreds of thousands on that. These days are pretty much blessings we should count them and spend them wisely.

Never go to bed unhappy, dont sleep untill you feel that you've gotten the utmost satisfaction.

Slut?

I go to practically an all boys school and i notice that the girls here are more open with their sex life and are more likely to have multiple partners that girls at a school with an equal amount of boys and girls.

The reason for this is, there arent enough girls here to label and patronize the girls that are promiscuous. Men only call Females sluts when they are hurt by their sexual actions. (i.e you sleep with your ex boyfriends bestfriend), Other than that we could care less. Girls on the other hand just call other girls sluts for having a healthy sex drive....

That only drives them away from being open about sex and taking part in something thats supposed to be enjoyable.

Live and let die, if it's not bothering you then shut the fuck up.

Who here is a saint?

Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.

-Oscar Wilde

Girls are smarter than us

I've figured it out, girls are smarter than guys and im gonna tell you why.

I always wanted to know why girls were told that they should be in love before they have sex. I figure sex just feels good so you should do it wether your in love or not. THEN IT HIT ME When you have sex with a person it's like your souls connect, wether it be good or bad it's a very internal (as well as external experience). You are bound to see that person again, because your souls are attracted to eachother because you shared such an amazing thing.

Therefore a girl would perfer to be in love with a guy before she has sex with him because maybe just maybe she knows that they will meet again and she would rather it be a peaceful encounter, if she doesn't have any kind of connection toward the guy when they bump into eachother again it's going to suck. She may even try to avoid the person she shared something so special with which is no good.

Sex although very fun is very special and even if you knew a person for 10 seconds before you had sex with them you will develop some kind of feeling toward them. Wether it be Love or hate.

If it's hate then you can only blame yourself.

If it's love then pat yourself on the back.

Girls are smarter because they always mention love before sex, now us guys have to wise up.

The reason sex is so sacred is because it's more than just a physical thing.

BITCH!!!!

For as long as i could remember whenever i talk to a girl i ask them "how come you dont chill with that many girls?"

They all reply with the same thing

"Cause they cause too many problems"

So i start to wonder if every girl i know is saying this, then who is this ONE girl who's going around starting drama?

Like my last post says you get what you want. I believe that if girls dont want drama then they wont get it, If you dont want something then you wont get it. Make's sense right?

Think about it, if your a girl and your reading this then maybe your the one starting drama and if your not then maybe your just throwing fuel into the fire. Girls and guys arent that different we do the same shit. The problem is "premeditated bullshit" you believe that problems will arise to the point where you might even anticipate them, Then boom they happen.

In conclusion you just have to chill, i would say everyone deserves a chance and then if they fuck up, then fuck them. Dont generalize every girl because when you were 11 your bestfriend kissed your boyfriend.

Always Attainable

If people want something they will get it. I remember back when i was in 1st grade and preschool and they always told us "If you put your mind to it you can do it". I put it to the test and it definitely is true.

I've seen nothing but examples of how that works lately. I'll give you a few examples then i'll tell you a story which is also true.

When a person needs money they will get it wether they have to rob or work they will get the money.

When a person wants sex wether they have to be polite or rape they will get sex.

When a kid wants to do well in school they'll study and do better.

When a person wants to do something with their life they can do it somethings a bit easier than others BUT if you really want something you will get it given the fact that you take the necessary steps.

So here's the story.

I know a lady (no name dropping) but she had a husband and he was abusive it was clear to everyone that she should leave him but she didn't. The man continued to be abusive to her for another 16 years. The man then became abusive to her step son but the step son knew that if he wanted the man gone he couldn't wait for it to happen he had to take action. So he called the cops and reported his actions. The man didn't get arrested because he left before the cops came BUT the man never came back. This is an example of what happens when you want something and you pursue it. The boy wanted the man gone and now the man is gone.

So what you should learn is that if you really want something and you go for it you will get it. Check out those examples again and i dare you to say I'm wrong.